Preparing for a Couples Escort Las Vegas Experience
As a couples escort in Las Vegas, I like to prepare in advance so both partners can feel comfortable, supported, and excited about exploring together.
In preparation for a couples session, I find out how long they’ve been together and what their current relationship is like. I also ask if they’ve discussed all the various foreseeable outcomes of our time together and get a short sexual history for each of them.
We troubleshoot in advance the main issues that could crop up as a result of working with me and how to deal with them. We do this via email.
Also, while it’s ideal to work with me for a series of sessions, many of my clients come in from out of town and can only see me once. Over the next week or so I will be sharing the process I recently went through with a couple that worked with me.
You can also read about another Las Vegas couples escort experience involving a first threesome and wife massage.
Creating a Safe and Comfortable Experience
When I get to the room, I introduce myself and talk a bit about my week and my background to set the tone of friendliness and support.
Through discussion with her, I determine her true level of comfort. Up until that point, I had only interacted with the husband through email.
After explaining my boundaries and goals for the session, I make sure she knows this session is about them and their pleasure, not mine. I will be interactive only to their comfort level. At any time that could increase or decrease, and that is okay.
Throughout the session, we will have constant communication. We check in on how they are feeling and let that be our guide.
Why Bring a Professional Into the Experience?
There are several reasons that I explain to them why bringing in a professional is a great choice:
- By having a session, you are putting your experience into a container that has a beginning and an end. Afterward, you can review what you liked and didn’t like. There’s not a lingering question of whether the experience was complete or not.
- You won’t be worried about any emotional romantic issues coming back to haunt your marriage.
- It’s a more relaxing situation than trying to pick somebody up in the bar and not knowing what you’re going to get. You don’t know what their skill level is sexually or what their motives are.
- Whatever pleasure I give to one partner, the other partner gets the credit for it.
Next, we review their interests as a couple. He loves massage and all touch, so he will be getting a full body sensual rubdown. Then they want to review different handjob and blowjob techniques.
For her turn, she wants to be pleasured. She’s never “been with a woman” before, and this has been a very exciting idea for the two of them.
Sensual Massage and Exploring New Touch
Their comfort level is full nudity. After setting up the massage table, I give him instructions to undress and lie face-down while I use the restroom and wash my hands. I come out nude and begin the massage while she sits on the bed.
As I massage him, the three of us discuss our sexuality. We talk about successes and challenges, and I share some of my own.
Because of the intimate atmosphere, they are able to open up quickly. We are able to discuss things on a very deep level almost immediately.
When I get to the buttocks area, I demonstrate and explain slow, loving touch. This will be easy for her to do and very sensual and pleasurable for him to receive. Sometimes it’s better to go slower and softer.
He likes anal stimulation, but she doesn’t love to give it. She will do it sometimes as a treat.
To help with her concerns, I suggest they incorporate gloves in the bedroom. Using gloves will increase her confidence that she will not inadvertently hurt him. It will also reduce her concerns about messiness.
For another example of exploring touch together, read about my couples Tantra massage experience.
Exploring Anal Massage Together
To demonstrate how to slowly approach the anus, I massage first the place where the legs meet the groin, the sit bones and the entire crack.
Soft, long strokes one after the other relax and arouse him. Shorter, deeper strokes massage all the muscles in the crack and relax and arouse him even further.
Going with the flow of arousal and enjoyment, he opens his legs further and tilts his pelvis higher.
Applying lubrication directly to the anus, I massage his outer sphincter in every direction, gently stretching and massaging it. With even more lube, I press inward against his anus with the flat of my thumb without penetrating.
He asks his wife to come and massage his balls. Standing across from me with her hand on his scrotum, she reaches out as he holds her other hand with his. Their love and connection is beautiful, and I’m loving being a part of it.
Communication During Prostate Massage
Once he’s ready for penetration, I point my thumb tip in, ready to slide it into his anus. I instruct him to take a deep breath. On his exhale, I slide my thumb into him.
Staying there, I just hold him and feel the arousal running through him. When a person is this aroused, stopping and holding can be very pleasurable. Their muscles flex and relax themselves, creating their own internal massage.
Then I gently press in every direction. Envisioning a clock with the tailbone being 12 and the prostate being 6, I stop at each number of the “clock.” At each point, I check in with him and ask how it feels.
After he says good a few times, I ask him to rate it on a scale of 1 to 5. One means not painful. There might be discomfort, but not pain. If there is any pain, we need to stop and address it immediately. Five means total bliss.
Continuing around the “clock,” I eventually reach the point where I am twisting my wrist completely. At that point, I gently pull out my thumb and insert my index finger.
In between stops, I explain that this is extremely therapeutic. I am massaging all the pelvic floor muscles from the inside. The arousal helps to facilitate a better pelvic floor massage because the pressure is pleasurable instead of painful.
At the prostate, I touch each side and do a few different types of strokes. The entire time, we communicate about how each one feels.
Sliding my finger in and out of his anus, I ask if he likes that sensation. He doesn’t.
Finally, I ask if he feels complete. Since he does, I end that part of the treatment with gentle holding while his wife holds his scrotum.
Teaching Sensual Touch as a Couple
Moving to the bed, he lies on his back while I sit cross-legged on one side of him and she sits across from me.
After giving her some oil, I ask her to show me what she normally does when massaging the groin area. She has a great pace and touch.
Next, I show her several strokes, first demonstrating and then having her do them. She is a natural!
When I ask if he thinks he would like to climax and, if so, how he would like to do that, he says yes and that he’d like oral.
Before continuing, I double-check with her to make sure it is still okay. After receiving her nod of approval, I bend down and take him into my mouth.
While giving him a wet, slow blow job, I listen to them talk to each other about how each feels about having someone else sucking on him. They both agree it is very hot, and she says she is totally turned on.
With his cock still in my mouth, I look into her eyes and reach a hand up to stroke her breast. Gently, I scrape my nails over her nipple.
Then her husband encourages her to kiss me. Taking my mouth off his cock, I lean across him and hold my face forward, letting her soft lips meet mine.
She is a fantastic kisser. After pressing our lips together, we naturally open our mouths, letting our tongues touch and taste each other.
Following that gentle French kiss, we look to her husband for approval. He tells us it is beautiful.
Moving my hand to the back of her head, I let my fingertips slide into her long hair. Getting a good grip, I give it a gentle squeeze, pleasurably pulling on her scalp.
Soft little pecks cover her face before I return to a full open-mouthed kiss for the shared pleasure of the three of us.
Her Turn to Explore Pleasure
His time comes to an end, and it is her turn. We get very close and allow the erotic energy to build between us.
Touching her sensually, I heighten her arousal. After having her lie back on the bed, I lightly run my hands up and down her body, touching everywhere but her breasts and pussy.
Each time the stroke goes past, I edge closer and closer. Soon I am getting the full reactions of arousal: stretching her spine, clenching and unclenching her thighs.
Exploring Vulva Massage
To begin, I demonstrate and explain a variety of strokes to massage the vulva. I thoroughly massage the mons, the outer labia, the inner labia and the space between the labia.
These techniques, I explain, can be used with oral as well.
Her arousal is high, and I massage her clit directly, first rolling the shaft back and forth. Then, gently holding it between my thumb and index finger, I stroke it like a little tiny cock.
Using one hand to pull the hood back and expose the glans of her clit, I get extra lube and massage it directly using super light, tiny little strokes.
Putting my face right in front of her pussy, I gently blow on the entire area. With my mouth full of saliva, I stick out my tongue and lick her outer labia up one side and down the next several times.
Breathing in her scent, I exhale warmly to add even more heat to her pussy.
Sticking out my tongue even further, I dip it into the crevice between her inner and outer labia. From there, I run it up one side and down the other, trailing below her hole across the perineum on the bottom and over the clit hood on the top.
I taste her tanginess and keep the ovals going until I can’t taste it anymore. Then I move on to her inner labia.
They are nice and thick and pink. First, I suck on one at a time and then gently use my teeth to scrape and suck simultaneously.
Next, I suck both of them into my mouth and alternate between sucking and gently nibbling. Slowly, I work my way up to her clit hood.
Reaching the hood, I make wet circles around her clit over and over. Then I lick directly onto her clitoris, gently at first. Slowly, I build up pressure, pressing in toward the center of her body.
Exploring Internal Pleasure
When I ask if she feels ready for penetration, she definitely is. I insert one finger and explore her vaginal opening, massaging the urethral tissue and the surrounding erectile tissue.
Applying pressure at various depths, I ask her what feels better. After finding the best spot, I try several different types of strokes and ask which feels best.
Once we’ve discovered that, I rhythmically rub inside her pussy with one hand while using my other hand to rub her clit.
After a while, I explore deeper into her and find her cervix. Before continuing, I ask if it feels good for me to touch it and demonstrate several different strokes and pressures.
With my hand so deep in her, I am able to use my thumb to stroke her clitoris on the outside as I simultaneously massage her cervix deep inside.
Taking the Pressure Off Orgasm
She becomes extremely aroused, and then there is a change in her. She wants to cum but isn’t cumming.
Her husband suggests the vibrator, and the deep private issues start coming out. She shares how she doesn’t like having to use the vibrator. Somehow, it makes her feel like less of a woman since she can’t achieve orgasm “naturally.”
Listening to her, I let her know that I hear and understand her. I can totally relate because I’ve had the same issues myself.
While continuing to gently and lovingly massage her vagina and vulva, I share my learning in this area. With each insight, I ask if she can relate or if it makes sense to her.
I’ve learned that I put a lot of pressure on myself to reach orgasm. If I masturbate or have sex and don’t have an orgasm, there’s a part of me that feels like it was a waste of time.
But it usually also seems like the harder I try to reach orgasm, the more difficult it becomes. The feelings of frustration and impending disappointment, coupled with harder self-stimulation, just make it worse.
Once an orgasm comes, I feel totally sore. My vulva is sore from the rubbing, and my arm and hand are sore from the exertion.
Over time, I’ve found that I need to be more loving to myself and accepting. I am not vibrator dependent for my orgasms, but there is nothing wrong with it if you are.
Some people are dependent on more extreme things than vibrators! Imagine not being able to climax without being bound and gagged! Or, like many men, being completely dependent on pornography.
The self-judgment about the vibrator is coming from some beliefs and old programs that aren’t working anymore. Beliefs can be changed! Start looking at the vibrator as a tool and having gratitude that it is so accessible.
Mindful Self-Pleasure and Learning Your Body
I also learned a lot about myself during a 30-day masturbation meditation practice. For 30 minutes every day, I practiced mindful masturbation.
Even though I went through a lot of emotions and beliefs, the outcome was amazing. For several reasons, I suggested she try it too.
She would get to know her body more intimately, and that would make intimacy with her husband more pleasurable. With mindful masturbation, there is no goal of orgasm. Because of that, she would be giving herself permission to just feel the pleasure and enjoy the pleasure.
She might even find out, like I did, that she is having orgasms she’s not recognizing as orgasms because they are deeper and subtler.
Before my masturbation meditation, I only recognized clitoral orgasms. Now I also recognize the cervix and g-spot orgasms that are not as sharp and all-consuming.
Another benefit of the practice was that my vulva became more sensitive. That also made partner sex more pleasurable.
Through the practice, I was able to see how self-massage could arouse me and how self-pleasure could be pleasant even without the sharp climax of a clitoral orgasm.
On day 17, a change happened for me, and it was like my pussy woke up! Suddenly, I was stimulated easily by a variety of things, from walking and riding in the car to solo sex and partner sex.
Another benefit of the daily practice is that the pressure for a good experience is removed. If you have a session that is less than ideal, then no big deal since you’ll be doing it again the next day.
Also, doing it every day gives you the space for experimentation. You can use different lubes and toys, different types of touch or different fantasies.
Using a mirror and seeing yourself and connecting with yourself is something you will have time to do. There are many terrific reasons to have a mindful meditation practice!
For more stories about exploring together, you can also read about couples massage, strap-on play and tantric massage.
Ending Our Couples Experience
As our time comes to an end, I let them know they can email me or call me if they have a few questions. If they want more guidance, I’d be happy to work with them on that level.
Before leaving, I wish them luck on the tables so maybe they can see me again before they have to leave town.
Want to know what others have said about their experiences with me? You can read my reviews here.
I am so happy to be able to do what I love for a living! Something has been going on with me – I am just about insatiable when it comes to sex! Sometimes I feel like I could have 10 men and still want more.
Wow this was an amazing weekend and I just had to share a quick overview. Hopefully I will have time to write about some of the stories in greater detail.
