Feeling the Pelvic Floor Through My Fingertips
When I’m doing methodical internal work like this, it’s almost like I’ve grown eyeballs in the tips of my fingers. I’m visualizing the muscles in my mind while simultaneously feeling for them with my fingertip. If I find tension or notice a reaction from the receiver, I pause and explore. I might try more pressure to see if the tension will release, or explore the spot to see if there is more pleasure available there before moving on.
I can feel areas of tightness and sometimes even twitching in the muscles. Healthy, relaxed tissue tends to soften and give way underneath my fingertips, while tight areas or knots remain hard. When I find one of those spots, I know to slow down. I hold the area with gentle pressure using the pad of my finger, breathe, and give the muscle time to relax and release.
This entire process is extremely pleasurable because not only is the receiver getting yummy anal stimulation, he’s also getting a full pelvic floor release. The pelvic floor works hard all day supporting our bodies, and those muscles can get tense and tight just like anywhere else. As the muscles relax and more energy and sensation can flow, the massage starts feeling better and better.
Gradually Building the Intensity
Next, because I know he enjoys the sensation of stretching, I started to open him up so he could take 2 fingers. The way I do this is by alternating strokes, starting with a stroke using just one finger, then with 2 fingers. To open him up to the 2 fingers, every time I switch to that stroke, I penetrate more deeply until I feel resistance. Then I pull out the 2 and do a full stroke with one finger again. I continue with this alternating stroke until the 2 fingers go in just as easily as the one finger.
Coordinating the Sensations
Once I was sliding 2 fingers all the way into his rosebud, I began stroking his prostate using the pads of both fingers. I focused on small circles going around his entire prostate. I held his cock with my left hand and timed the strokes on his cock to be in unison with the strokes on his prostate.
To be continued… In Part 3, I’ll share how attunement guides my touch and helps me know when to build sensation, when to slow down, and when to simply let the experience unfold.
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