Coconut oil body slide Las Vegas FBSM escort

Hi!

If you would prefer to read what I’m saying, scroll down for the transcription:)

hello

Nikki, the Las Vegas Masseuse, here

I just finished a session and wanted to make this quick video.

We did something a little different.

We started with the massage, and it was beautiful all over the back of his body.

He had requested that I bring coconut oil, so after I was done with his entire back body, I put the coconut oil all over the back of his body and all over the front of my body. I slid my body all around him and up and down, and it was extremely erotic, and I started getting aroused myself.

It was really hot because as I was straddling him, I was able to rub my pussy against him. It feels so good with all the coconut oil – just woo! – getting inside my pussy lips and rubbing it against the spine and his tailbone, so we did that for a while. I even gave him some small kisses on his ear and neck.

Being so aroused, I was like, okay, time to do the front body.

So he laid on his back, and I put a ton of coconut oil on his front body, and I started doing the same thing to the front of his body, just not letting him slip in. I’m very careful about that.

Because I like to practice safer sex

I took time letting his cock slide between my thighs, all oiled up.

Also, eventually working my hips up his body, straddling his belly and then his chest, and then he wanted my pussy on his mouth. I just slid right up there and had his head between my thighs with my big booty resting on his chest while I held onto the headboard and ground into his tongue for a while, and I got really nice and engorged.

so good

Then I needed to have a little position change to stretch out my knee; you know, we have to take care of our bodies while we’re doing these things.

So I had him flip around so his head was at the foot of the bed. I climbed back up on his face, and then I was able to lean forward and take his cock in my mouth, and we spent some time in that position. He was so nice and hard and then.

Finally, I asked him if he was ready for some penetration. We got a condom and lube, then I got on his cock, and it was so good to be so open to him and take him in completely and totally into my pussy, and then I sat up just riding his cock, and I started playing with my clit

And he said he really would like to feel me cum, and that was accessible, so that was really hot. I came with his cock deep inside me.

So after we came down for a little bit, we changed positions. I got into doggy right at the foot of the bed, so he was standing at the of the bed, and I was bent over.

He was pounding away to his heart’s content until he came inside. I mean, you know, with the condom, but still, it’s so good, so good. Then we lay and cuddled for a little while and some time went by, and there was still a half hour left, so we did some massage.

I massaged his feet some more, as well as his shoulders and neck.

Yeah, beautiful. I just wanted to pop on here to share that if you want me to have this kind of experience with you, just let me know, so I will bring my coconut oil.

I don’t always have that with me.

I can do it with my massage oil, but the coconut oil has a different kind of slipperiness for the body to body, so yeah, it’s totally fun!

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more enthusiastic, aggressive, and even rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

You can find all my rates at Las Vegas Masseuse – Therapeutic, Sensual and Kinky

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first

Birthday Month For The Las Vegas Masseuse

Nikki Ivana, tantra, tantrika, prostate massage, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975Hurray! June is my birthday month, and I’m so excited about all the extra birthday fun I’m getting to have:)

One of my favorite things is that a handful of client friends come and see me as part of their birthday celebrations. Every year! That feels very special.

I love my ongoing connections – we go deeper and deeper with our play and exploration. Those who have been seeing me for years get to open up energetically and sensually, exploring sensation and experiences more deeply every time. We co-create a special space that stands still when we are apart, ever-deepening when we come together.  

Email or text me if you are curious about what is possible:)

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more enthusiastic, aggressive, and even rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

You can find all my rates at Las Vegas Masseuse – Therapeutic, Sensual and Kinky

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first

Quick Update – Tantra Training Was Great!

Hello!  I started back to seeing people in mid January when I got the go ahead from my surgeon to work again and honestly I’ve been so busy that I have not had time to make a post.  I don’t really have time right now either but I really want to keep you in the loop.

March 2021

What has me so busy?  Mostly school.  Yes, I’m doing school full time, which is about 20 hours a week.  I took some time off school to go to Mexico!

March 2021

I was in Mexico for two weeks at tantra training.  The first week was Tantric Arts Training for Women Practitioners and I learned about so much including chakras, singing to chakras, five elements massage, and timeline work.  I also learned about vulva, vaginal, and penis massage from a tantric perspective.  It was so amazing!  The second week was Energetic Sex Facilitator Training where I learned about how to teach others on an energetic level.  Feeling orgasmic energy in a more full bodied way, releasing stuck emotions, and feeling more pleasure sustained over a longer period of time than I ever have before.

Nikki Ivana, tantra, tantrika, lingam, yoni, sacred spot, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975
March 2021

I have raised my rates.  I have not raised them in 6 years and that is the reason for the big jump.  If we have met since January of 2019 I have special rates for you.  Just email me or text me for more info.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

The Tail End Of Summer – Las Vegas, Sacramento and Berkeley / Oakland

August was so wonderful and busy that I had to take off the first week of September to rest my body in general and my hands/wrists in particular!  I’m happy about it though because I had so many amazing sessions that it was worth it.

I kicked off the month with sessions in Northern California.  I’ve found a new love of long-form sessions – 3 hours!  The amount of connection and exploration that can unfold in that time is exquisite.  We have enough time to talk and connect either over coffee, drinks, or massage.  We can go deep into role play or sensation exploration.  I am 420 friendly and that gives us time to explore each other in that altered state as well.  If the peak of the session happens sooner rather than later there’s plenty of time for cuddling each other or more massage.

I’m planning on visiting Sacramento and Berkeley on the first weekend of October.  Let me know if you would like to schedule a session.

 

Some other amazing things that have been going on in my life –

  • I started school at the University of Phoenix in April.  I’m going for a Bachelor of Psychology.  I was able to transfer almost all my (20-year-old) credits from community college so I’m halfway there!  My plan is to go on for at least my master’s and possibly a Ph.D.
  • I am polyamorous and I’ve been doing a lot of dating around work and school and momming…  so that’s been fun and interesting.  I met someone in Sacramento who I have amazing chemistry with and that will make it easier to visit that part of the world more often.  I had forgotten how intoxicating chemistry can be.  I have felt it with client friends, but I hold such a tight container around sessions…  no matter how good it feels in a session I know that it is for that time we are together and nothing more.  It’s been fun to flirt and play with someone in a more freestyle way.
  • Working as a life coach and sex coach.  I even got to teach my Art of Fellatio class to two different bachelorette parties!  Those were certainly fun and interesting:)
  • Of course, there’s been a lot of not so fun stuff with the pandemic going on.  I focus on taking care of myself, being gentle and loving, and transmitting that when I am with my client friends.  Many of my sessions have had some amount of gentle comforting where I have held my partner and felt a sense of nurturing pouring from my heart to theirs.  I’m lucky to have a good support network with my family and friends that helps me get through the tough times and growing pains.

Now September is in full swing and I can’t wait to see what amazing events unfold!

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

 

Things Are Heating Up! Visiting Northern California Soon

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

These are pictures I took during my last trip.  I was so happy to be on a trip, seeing client friends, and having fun.

I have been having as much fun as I can locally, it’s just challenging since all the swingers clubs are closed.  I have been to a couple of backyard pool parties and the last one was a blast!  I got to play with several different couples and be naked a whole bunch.

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

Now I’m ready to start planning my next trip.  This time I want to go up to Northern California.  I will be in Sacramento and San Francisco.  I’m going to drive so if you live anywhere between that area and Las Vegas I can ad a stop to visit with you.

Shoot me an email at lvmasseuse@gmail.com or a text at 7022361975 if you would like to set up a session.

While traveling I only offer “massage with the works”.

I do also require at least a 50% deposit when you book to hold your reservation when I’m traveling.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

 

 

Time For A Mini Vacation – Southern California Here I Cum!

I am sooooo ready for a vacation!!!

My last time out of town was to visit Sedona in the beginning of January.

On Friday night 6/26 I’m going to visit a friend in San Diego.

I am available to meet up on Saturday morning 6/27 before I have to check out.

Saturday night I’m going to be in LA but as of now, I’m booked up both Saturday night and Sunday morning.  Let me know if you would like to be contacted for future travel plans…  or if you would like to keep me in LA for another night:)

 

I’m not sure where I will be staying yet.  I’m researching hotels and I have a friend helping me look at things too.  I know there are some areas that are a little messed up from the riots.

 

Shoot me an email lvmasseuse@gmail.com or a text at 7022361975 if you would like to set up a session.  While traveling I only offer “massage with the works”.

I do also require at least a 50% deposit when you book to hold your reservation when I’m traveling.

Whether we get to meet up soon or not I was wondering –

Which of these pictures is your favorite? I need to put new pics on my landing page and ads.

Maybe I can find someone to take sexy pictures of me on the beach!  That would be fun!!!

All the pictures in the teal dress were taken at the Bellagio.  The ones in the sleeveless sundress were taken just outside my apartment.

What I would really like are some sexy boudoir photos…  maybe I’ll find someone to help me out with that too…

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Little Distraction Amidst The Chaos

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

I feel like if it’s not one thing, it’s another lately.  Between personal problems, deadly virus’s and now chaos in the streets – I don’t think things will ever “go back to normal.”

Whatever your views on all these developments, I’m guessing that the reason you are here, reading what I wrote, is for a little relief, fun, and pleasure.  So here it is:)

I got all my pictures from my last shoot loaded up to my google drive for easy sharing in case you would like to buy a set.

Here are the sets:

  • Boobs – 48 pics.  All yours for $25
  • Butt shots – 9 pics $5
  • Foot shots – 2 pics $5
  • Full body shots showing my belly – 26 pics $15
  • Pussy pics (some with me playing with my pussy) – 60 pics $30
  • MILF shots (very casual photoshoot – started wearing yoga pants and t-shirt and stripped) – 33 pics $17

If you would like any of these sets (or all of them), send me an email at lvmasseuse@gmail.com, and we can work out the details.  I can take payment via

  • Zelle
  • CashApp
  • Venmo
  • Google Wallet
  • Facebook messenger

I do have a way to take a credit card directly, but that is the last option if none of these other ones will work.

I Am Seeing Clients

As people are getting more comfortable with going out of the house, I’ve been so happy to see some of my local clients.  There is a lot of concern about health, and these are my opinions on the subject:

  • If you are immune-compromised or you live with someone who is, and you are practicing strict quarantine measures or social distancing, you should not see me (or any provider for that matter).
  • If you are still going to work, the grocery store, and the park, then we are at about the same exposure level.  I would love to see you!
  • If you are going out to public parties and hugging and getting close to lots of people, some of whom you don’t know well, you should not come to see me.  You will have more exposure than me, and I’m not ok with that.  I may be going to some play parties in the near future, and I’ll update my tolerance if I feel ok about it.

As time passes, I will post if I start having any symptoms or if I test positive for the coronavirus.  That way, if you have seen me in the previous two weeks, you will know you have been exposed.

As Las Vegas opens up, I hope to see more people.  If I don’t, I may have to go on tour – I kind want to do that anyway – so email me if you are interested in me visiting your city in the future.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

 

 

What I Love About Escorting

I love preparing to see you. I have appointments for keeping my hair, nails and Brazilian wax (I do leave hair over the pubic bone area just above the slit of my pussy) done. When I have a session booked, I start getting ready at least 90 minutes in advance. I bath, shaving my legs and using hot water and gentle soap on all my intimate areas. I style my hair and apply my makeup. I usually ask for special requests before a session, and sometimes these requests extend to what color lipstick I wear.

I always wear a sexy bra and panties for you unless something else is requested. I do enjoy the variety of putting on lingerie or fetish wear. On top of that I wear a dress or skirt, usually dressy casual unless otherwise requested. I have dressed way up (wearing sexier or sluttier clothing), and I have dressed down (shorts and flip flops or a t-shirt and yoga pants). I arrive at your door, wearing high heels to make a great first impression!

I always strive to be on time on the dot. I would say I make this happen 95% of the time. Sometimes the flow of traffic is unexpected, and I’m a little late. In instances like this, I will always text you updates on my progress – I hate making people wait and wonder. I usually send a text when I’m on my way and again when I’m parking.

I enjoy getting to know you quickly.   Depending on your mood, I enjoy having a conversation and getting to know each other, starting with some massage, or getting to know your cock with a hello blowjob within the first 5 minutes of my arrival. I can’t decide which I enjoy more – a quick release right away followed up with play for the rest of our time together, or a steady build-up for an intense release at the end of our time together. Both are sweet and sexy in their way.

For my new friends – I love going from being almost strangers, having laid eyes on you for the first time only minutes earlier, to be being completely physically (and often energetically) more intimate than most people ever get.

For my friends that I have known for awhile and seen multiple times – I love being able to build on what we experienced together in the past. If I only see you once a year, you may have to remind me of some of your specific preferences, but our familiarity speeds our intimacy and pleasure at a rapid pace. We know each other in a way that makes it easier to explore more deeply than the last time we met.

I love having our little cocoon of pleasure and play wrapped around us for the time of our session. I’m happy putting my attention on you, pleasing and teasing you, touching and licking you all over. I love feeling your gaze on me as well, feeling your adoration and even objectification. Hearing your dirty talk about how I look and what we are doing gets me going, and I love playing along with my own naughty words. The more taboo, the better – nothing is off-limits when it comes to fantasizing and role play. Once you give me the green light on what you like to hear, I will go to the extreme verbally of what we can say.

I stay authentic and genuine to myself at all times – I am good at communicating boundaries and desires, and I bring my whole self with me to every session. If we are talking and getting to know each other, I will share openly about being a mom and girlfriend and about my personal hurdles and successes in business and health. During physical intimacy, I will ask for changes if needed to be able to be more comfortable or experience more pleasure. I do my best not to make you have to guess. I find this level of intimacy on both the verbal and physical levels to be very erotic. They are what lead to a true girlfriend experience.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Summer Fun With The Las Vegas Masseuse

Wow, this summer has been jam-packed with lots of fun!

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

Attended an inspirational conference in June

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975
Worked out almost every day of the week and got stronger and more flexible:)

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

I got on track making videos for youtube for my coaching business.

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

Still somehow found time to go out and have fun with friends a few times as well:)

I have a lot of new fun stuff coming up on the horizon!  I’m really excited about it all:)  I’ll share as things unfold.

Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

 

Blow Job Review With Las Vegas Escort

I thought this post blow job interview would be good to share with those who wonder what my blow jobs are like.

You can get access to the preview of the video on my other site www.NikkisLessons.com

You will have to do the free registration in order to see it.  There are also instructions there on how to access the full video.

Here is a loose transcription of our discussion:

He had a very good experience.  He loved the sensual touch.  I started by connecting with touch and breathing.  I also did teasing – not going straight to his cock.  Most people go straight to the act without having any foreplay or connection.  He was very impressed with my skills.  He was very pleased.  He has had lots of experiences where people think they are doing a great job and he tries to be encouraging, but the experience was lacking.  To have me share my skills with him and to be able to come back and verify how well skilled I am – everything was perfect.  No teeth.  Great lubrication.  I was into it, so it felt absolutely amazing.  It was by far one of the best he has had.

A couple of good points – no teeth, lots of saliva (lubrication).  Besides that, were there any techniques that surprised you or that were new to you?

Yes, I do a thing with my tongue – the swirl.  He really liked that.  That is my signature move.  It was new to him.  He was trying to see what I was doing to see what was causing the sensation he was feeling.  It felt like I was flipping my tongue.  I was doing the swirl and bob.

A lot of guys are just so grateful that someone is putting their mouth on their cock that they will take whatever they can get.  A lot of guys are paying attention though.

He guesses there are a lot of women who take pride in it, but then there are some who do it out of obligation.  When that is the case, he can tell within the first 30 seconds.  Most of the time he does not let women go down on him because, while he does not want to offend anyone, if they start and it’s not good he will take control by moving it through to the next stage to get her off his cock.  He is very oral, touchy and hands – on.  I ask if he feels like that has become his coping mechanism to deal with negative blow jobs.  He says yes, you don’t want them to feel bad.  Especially if they are down there and look up and ask if he likes it and if it’s not great that’s a tough situation.  So he finds a way to take the lead.

He is also a performer, so he loves to perform and give a good performance.  If he can take control of the situation, he can make sure he has a great performance.  It’s pleasing to him to see his partner pleased.  He wants to leave an impression on his partner.

How did he feel about the end of the session about me asking him if he would like to take over manually.  He said 9 out of 10 times he does not cum from blow jobs.  He was extremely close because of my skills.  He said he could have come in the next 15 minutes or less.

I teach as a giver to do things that are sustainable for the giver’s body.  Although I enjoyed everything I did, I could tell I had some fatigue in the muscles on the back of my neck.  I could tell I needed to take a step back from what I was doing.  I could also tell he was going to need more intense stimulation to get him to the peak than what I could provide, especially considering that I was fatigued.  That is why I asked him to stroke himself manually while I licked his balls and played with his asshole.

Did it detract from the whole blowjob?  He says no.  A lot of girls says it’s not a real blowjob if you use your hands.  He suggests doing whatever you need to do to get the job done.  Kudos if you can do it with your mouth alone but if you need to use your hands go for it but make sure to have enough saliva or lubrication to make sure you can slide and glide.

A lot of girls talk about their jaw getting sore.  It’s usually not a problem for me, but he is well endowed – very girthy – that’s why I took the breaks I did.  A lot of girls will power through it and try to get it done no matter what.  That’s not good because you want it to be mutually pleasurable.  You don’t want to hurt yourself or have lockjaw.  That leads to them not wanting to give head as often because they are sore after.

He says one thing that will really get a man there is if you are vocal – moaning, breathing and acting like you love it.  Even if you don’t like it, if you act like you love it, then he will have an easier time climaxing.

There is a difference between faking it and turning up the intensity.  If you are enjoying it and getting into it, you can turn up the intensity by adding more vocalizations, and you are still not going to be faking it.

The receiver can tell if you are faking it.  As the receiver, if you think your partner might be faking their enthusiasm, then the receiver will question if they were good or not as a partner overall.  That is different than turning up the intensity and the volume.

He felt like we were both in tune with each other.  He felt bad that he didn’t ejaculate from the oral.  He feels bad when his partner is asking him if he’s done yet.  That is why I put the time limit on our session.  We knew going into it how much time we had.  This is another thing that stops a lot of girls from giving a blowjob – because they never know how long it is going to take.  I teach to take the pressure off by making it goalless and not about the performance.

The goallessness – asking him if he was close and about to cum really helped.  Usually, a guy will stretch it out and get it to last as long as it can.  So when the giver puts a time on it (like five more minutes), he can work to reach climax during that time.  He then mentions a man going down on a woman – that he should stay down on her for as long as it takes.

I talk about how it’s different if you can play the day away.  In that case, staying down there for as long as it takes is fine.  But if you have other things to do then a time limit is good.

He loves being oral and going down.  He tries to make sure the woman cums at least 3x before he even penetrates her.  It’s like preheating the oven.  If you don’t do that, then you won’t get good results.  I feel that’s very impressive.  He shares that you come across women who have really beat up their vagina with a vibrator and they are desensitized.  Then, when he is down there, they enjoy it and love it, but it takes a long time and a lot of manipulation before they can cum.  That is frustrating for him.

I share that while a lot of times it is because a vibrator but that my body usually doesn’t climax until after 45 minutes of clitoral stimulation and that it’s not because of the vibrator since it takes that long even when I do use a vibrator.  He thinks he could do better.

I explain that there is a lot of pleasure to be had besides just climax.  If the goal is climax, often it pushes the climax further away because I feel performance pressure that I have to cum to make my partner happy.  He says he would never want anyone to feel pressure to cum because while he’s in the act he’s in tune with his partner’s body, and he knows that every woman and everybody is different and that every woman wants a different touch.  What works for one woman may not work for another.  He stays in tune and keyed in to how his partner’s body moves.  If he’s doing something, he can feel if she is enjoying it or not.  He can adjust according to how she moves.  This is how he customizes his oral skills to each individual to make sure they have an amazing time.  He can tell – he thinks he can make me cum in 25 or 30 minutes.  I tell him it also depends on what we do first.

Climax is a mixture of relaxation and stimulation.  If you start with a relaxing massage, then climax is easier.

Is there anything else he’d like to say to people about blowjobs, either giving or receiving?  Communication is the most important thing.  Preferences, likes and dislikes, if something is happening in the moment where it’s uncomfortable or if they are using teeth – don’t just sit there and bear through it because you don’t want them to stop or get offended.  Say what you like.  They are not going to know how to get better at it or please you if you don’t tell them.  They may just be doing what they did with their last partner, and they may not work for you, but they have no idea.  Communicate and tell them if you like it wet or dry.  Some women give a very dry blow job, but it makes for a lot of friction.  The tongue is very rough, and that is not pleasurable.

 

Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience a full body sensual massage (FBSM), a girlfriend experience (GFE), or receive oral from me (bbbj) aka cock worship. We can go super slow and sensual using tantric massage techniques. I can come to you (outcall, in room massage) or you can come to me (incall).

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Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
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