Energy Orgasm With Las Vegas Tantra Masseuse

Nikki Ivana, tantra, tantrika, dominatrix, prostate massage, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975Last week, I had a super hot session where I got to pop some cherries!

 

We started the session with some back massage, but he was really eager to touch me as well and not really able to relax and receive, so we switched positions.  We sat on the bed face to face, caressing and kissing each other.  His cock quickly got rock hard, and I knew it needed attention!

 

He leaned back, and I got in between his legs so I could lick and suck on his cock.  We started with some dirty talk that had me calling him daddy and him calling me a hot milf.  We both talked about how hot it was that I was being such a dirty girl doing so many nasty hot things to him as I was worshipping his cock and testicles. 

 

We changed positions to have him sitting on the edge of the bed with me sitting in front of him so I could continue to suck his cock more and give my neck a little break.  I kept sucking and licking and worshipping him until the intensity relaxed a little bit, and we could get back to some massage.

 

I asked him if he enjoyed anal stimulation, and he shared that he had never had it before and that he was interested.  I had him lie down, and first, I started with some anal licking, using my mouth and tongue on his rosebud and up and down the length of his ass crack.  He really liked that, so I got the gloves and lube and massaged the entire area to prepare for penetration.  It turned out his body did not want penetration, but it did want more licking!  I was happy to do that for him some more.  

 

Next, I had him turn onto his back to give him some cock massage.  He was so turned on and fully aroused that he was experiencing amazing waves of pleasure.  These waves were moving up and down his body, causing him to experience what we call kryas in tantra.  This is when energy (possibly kundalini energy) moves up and down your spine.  It is extremely pleasurable.  Once I saw how energetically sensitive he was, I decided to play with it a bit.

 

I put one hand on his heart (chakra) and kept stroking his cock (lingam) with my other one.  First, I visualized energy coming up from his root and his cock and running all the way up to his heart to connect the two.  He experienced a big peak, and as he was entering the bliss state of being on the edge of orgasm, I encouraged him to breathe and relax and let the pleasure move all around his entire body rather than being completely focused on his cock.  

 

After riding the wave of that peak, we started building again, and this time to add to the intensity, I visualized energy coming in through my crown chakra, down through my central channel, out through my root and into his, up into and through his central channel, picking up the creative erotic energy of my strokes on his cock, and continuing up through to exit him through his crown and coming back into me.  By visualizing this energy and breathing along with it, he had another huge peak of pleasure.  

 

I asked him if he would like to ejaculate, and he was very surprised that he didn’t ejaculate because he had felt like he had a complete orgasm.  I explained that he had an energetic orgasm and that orgasm and ejaculation are not necessarily tied together.  He could try ejaculating, or he could be happy with the experience that we had and save the energy that would be lost through ejaculation.  I shared about how some people practice semen retention, and he had just experienced it naturally.  That since he didn’t ejaculate, he would have more energy for the rest of the evening.  

 

He decided to leave it where it was and spend the last 10 minutes of our time together getting a really nice foot massage.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more enthusiastic, aggressive, and even rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

You can find all my rates at Las Vegas Masseuse – Therapeutic, Sensual and Kinky

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first

 

Difficulty Climaxing? Maybe you need a session with the Dick Whisperer LOL

Not being able to climax can be a sensitive subject.  I feel honored to be able to facilitate men in having peak experiences.

I use several different techniques to relax and stimulate your entire body and mind including Tantra, oral worship and adoration, and more.

We also did a thorough anal and prostate massage.

In preparing for the session, we discussed desires and possibilities.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

You can find all my rates at Las Vegas Masseuse – Therapeutic, Sensual and Kinky

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)

Massage, Oral, and Playing on the Submissive Side

Nikki Ivana, tantra, tantrika, lingam, yoni, prostate massage, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975Happy Spring!

I do enjoy being a naughty girl!  I just had a session with one of my favorite regulars.

Here is a list of what I enjoy about playing with him –

  • We start with a good massage while we talk and catch up – he loves being on my massage table
  • I love teasing him as I come to the end of each limb by running my fingers next to his butt
  • Every time my groin is near his hands he reaches for me and touches me through my panties with gentle pressure that feels good and teases me at the same time
  • After massaging the entire backside of his body, I play with his butt and I’m a very naughty girl – I lean over and lick his butthole
  • When I lean over he touches my butt and pussy.  He starts with touching through my panties.  Then he pulls them to the side to touch me directly
  • I love how he starts gentle and slowly penetrates the folds of my pussy until he gets to my opening and feels how wet I am
  • He turns over and his big cock is rock hard
  • I lean over to take him into my mouth
  • He gets more aggressive with his hands – I love him spreading my butt cheeks and my pussy open to look at me and touch me
  • I love taking him in my mouth and the curve of his cock is perfect to take all the way into my throat
  • His fingers go deeper inside my pussy and I get so wet it makes squishy noises
  • He tells me when to slow down because he is close to the edge and we want to draw it out as long as possible
  • I alternate between having his cock in my mouth and taking his balls into my mouth and licking his testicles all over
  • He has me stand up and he touches me all over the front of my torso
  • He gets to my face and mouth and puts his fingers in my mouth
  • I think he likes how deep he can put his fingers in my mouth
  • He hooked his finger on my jaw and pulled my face close to his very gently
  • I was out of control as he kissed and licked my mouth and tongue
  • We went back and forth several times between me worshipping his cock and him controlling my head and face
  • We got closer to the edge and my pussy felt so good that I had to play with myself
  • When he got super close to the edge I started rubbing myself really fast with his fingers in me until I came on his hand
  • As soon as I was done cumming he came in my mouth and I kept sucking on his cock until he was done

Wooh!  So hot!

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

You can find all my rates at Las Vegas Masseuse – Therapeutic, Sensual and Kinky

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)

Happy New Year! Sexy Escapades with the Las Vegas Masseuse

Nikki Ivana, tantra, tantrika, lingam, yoni, sacred spot, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975Happy New Year!

 

This year has gotten off to such a good start that I haven’t had much time to write about all my sexy escapades:)

 

I’ve been able to spend time with one of my favorite kinky Canadians and a few of my favorite locals!

 

I have had a couple of threesomes with the beautiful Jennifer Lin! You can see her site at 

https://meetjenniferlin.com/about  She is super fun because she is just as naughty as I am!  I love it!!!

 

I went to an orgy where there were 6 or 7 other providers and their dates and we had so much fun!  It was like a swinger’s party on steroids – none of the awkward wondering if people would play or not!  Every girl plays with every guy.  So good!  If you are interested in going to one of these with me please let me know.  I’d love to bring you as my date!  Some of the other girls that might go to this kind of event are

 

Kiwi Dr Kiwi Consulting (lasvegasvipcompanion.com)

Heather Home | heatherofvegas (heatherdangelo.com)

April April Luv | Sensual Elite Companion (meetaprilluv.com)

 

I love playing with these ladies!  Let me know if you ever want me to bring one of them with me:)

 

I had a wonderful day long “fall in love for a day” date that was so sweet 🙂 We spent time together in a day use hotel room. That was my first time getting one of those lol.  I was happy to bring lots of BDSM toys and fetish wear to dress up for him and play with him for the morning.  We took a break and went out for tacos and tequila – so fun!  We went back to the room for afternoon play with my strap on and sounds.  He had one of the best orgasms of his life!!  We went on to go out to a swinger’s party that evening.  I do love group sex!  There is something super satisfying about that.

 

One person flew me out to go see him for 24 hours! Doing that kind of thing makes me feel so special and I was actually wet for most of the day when I was traveling to him.  Whenever he broke away to go to his convention I would work on my schoolwork (I am a full time psychology student, in case you didn’t know).  It was so nice though to give him a very loving hello blow job, to dress up and go to out to dinner, to play and make love to his asshole with my strap-on.  The next day was all about tantra.  I sang to his chakras, we sat yabyum, and enjoyed energy play in addition to physical interaction.  I so appreciated the ample amount of time we had to be COMPLETELY unrushed and able to explore as much pleasure as possible each step of the way.  

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

You can find all my rates at Las Vegas Masseuse – Therapeutic, Sensual and Kinky

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)

 

What’s In My Playbag? Las Vegas Masseuse Escort Dominatrix Update

I love setting up for a session!  In this video, I talk about getting ready for a session (outcall Las Vegas escort session).  I booked the room for us and got all set up.

I always bring condoms and gloves.  While I require condoms for intercourse (full service), I do offer bareback blow jobs (BBBJ).  I carry the gloves for prostate massage.

I always have my silicone-based lube and the massage oil I make myself out of olive oil with lavender essential oil.  This way I’m ready to give a great massage inside and out!

I bring my dildos for strap-on play.  I also show off my harness.  I also use the condoms on those:)  I have a weighted metal wand for prostate massage as well.  For many, it has led to spontaneous ejaculation.

I always clean my toys with a good toy cleaner.

I carry a couple of different floggers with me as well.  I talk about how all these toys can be used sensually for pleasure or more rough for pain.  I do use my hands for spanking -and- I also have some paddles for when my hands get tired or sore.

I also have cuffs for restraints.  I also can use those for a bondassage type experience.

 

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)

Topping a Top ~ Las Vegas Sensual Dominatrix Experience

Hi!  I wrote this blog right after the session a couple of months ago but haven’t had time to post it.  I’m deeply grateful that I’ve been so full with clients and college and teaching!  This week is the first time I haven’t been booked up elbows to assholes on my schedule.

I’ve also been dating which has been interesting.  I’m learning a lot about myself for sure.  I’ve been playing more and more on the submissive side of the scale in my personal life and I love how much it informs my Pro Domme sessions.  I’m able to dominate in a way that is more saturating, integrating energy and emotions with the physical more than ever.  I have always enjoyed rough sex but being submissive is different.  It’s truly vulnerable.  I’ve known this and that’s why I’ve never offered it professionally.  I think the only way I could even consider doing pro sub work is for longer sessions and with phone calls in advance so I could feel safe and comfortable.  I feel honored by all those who hire me for dominatrix sessions.

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One of my favorite things just happened for the 2nd time this month. I love it when I see someone on the 1st night of their trip and they call me back a few days later because they have to see me again before they head back home. Especially when the 1st time they see me they just get the sensual massage or massage plus and then for the 2nd session they upgrade to massage with the works because they know how good my touch is and they just imagine how much better my mouth will be.

I feel so honored to have had the session that I just finished. This gentleman had never been on the receiving end of sensation play before and it was very edgy for him.   As someone who has mostly been a top but has played on the submissive side with 1 or 2 partners, I understand the deep vulnerability and trust that comes with receiving the intense sensations of impact play and playing on the pain end of the scale. The level of surrender that it takes to feel the sensations and let go of your programmed reactions to feeling pain is very deep. My friend did so well – he took so much sensation for his 1st session. I started him off slowly and easily with a suede flogger. Then I went to slapping and spanking with my hands. I gave plenty of pleasure breaks using my mouth and my tongue on his asshole and his cock. We paid attention to what his body responded to and did more of that when we wanted him to be more erect. It turned out that his body responded best to rough ball play.   There is a way that going back-and-forth from the pain to the pleasure confuses and disorients the mind.  This disorientation itself feels good because it takes over your whole mind. There is no room left for critical or analytical thinking.  There is only the present now moment of sensation and us doing this thing together.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Las Vegas Escort And Tantra Update

I created a super special experience that I am now offering  –

Fall in love for the day – 10am to 10pm $2000 – includes optional psychedelic experience:)

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • Tantra (lingam, yoni, and sacred spot massage)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Taboo Daddy Daughter Role Play

I always say incest is great as long as it is fantasy:)

We started the session with a soft kiss that lingered on for a long time as his hands roamed my body, feeling up under my skirt to enjoy my pantyhose covered hips and thighs.  When our kiss broke, I turned around, and he felt my body all over, first over my dress, then underneath it as I leaned forward against the dresser, sticking my butt out for him to enjoy.  He pushed up my skirt and rubbed my body all over, often reaching around from behind to feel my breasts through my bra and my pussy through my pantyhose.

I could feel his cock poking out,  super hard, and I pushed back against it to rub my butt against his groin.  I was completely wet from all the admiration and feeling how turned on he was.

I turned around, took off everything but my pantyhose and high heels, and he explored my newly exposed skin even more completely with his hands and his mouth.  When I couldn’t wait anymore, I dropped to my knees in from of him to suck on his hard cock.  He wanted more kissing and tasting, and soon we were both on our knees on the floor, kissing and touching each other all over.

We got onto the bed, and I started to kiss my way up his leg, getting close to his cock so he could feel my warm, wet breath, just long enough to tease, then I started at the bottom of his other leg, kissing, licking and letting him feel my hot breath all the way up until I was at his groin again.  This time I broke the tension by licking his testicles.

That is when the taboo role play began.  He started to refer to himself as daddy, and I fell right in line.  Yes, baby girl did like licking daddies cock and balls.  Yes, daddy.  Thank you, daddy.  Then daddy wanted to make his little girl feel good to0 – I had to lay down and open my legs for daddy.  And he made me feel so good!  Such special kisses.  And it had to be out little secret.  No one could find out.  He made me feel things I had never felt before.  Being so naughty sent me over the edge, and I came hard with my daddy’s fingers in my little pussy.

We finished with me taking care of daddy using my mouth while we discussed him impregnating me…  So fucking taboo!!!

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975 Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975

Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Cock Worship and Squirting With The Las Vegas Masseuse Escort

Nikki Ivana, redhead, Mature, BBW Escort, Las Vegas Escort, GFE, Fetish, Dominatrix, 702.236.1975, 702-236-1975, 7022361975July has gotten off to a great start with super hot sessions!

Mentally, I get off on being an escort, being paid to go to strange men’s rooms and do super intimate naughty things with them.  It’s a thrill and an extreme turn on for me.  Yes, I’m very safe with verifying who I’m seeing and using condoms and such, but the fact that I’m doing what I’m doing is so naughty and socially unacceptable is hot to me.  I love my inner slut/nymphomaniac/whore.  I love looking at my client’s face and seeing how aroused they are because I’m worshiping his cock and playing with my wet pussy.  I love the thrill of getting fingerbanged and edging on the verge of climax then squirting all over his hand and face while I cum hard.  My pussy is getting wet just writing about this.

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Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience:

  • full body sensual massage (FBSM)
  • prostate massage
  • a girlfriend experience (GFE)
  • strap-on/pegging
  • receive oral from me (BBBJ) aka cock worship and/or rimming (DATO)
  • lick my pussy (DATY)
  • play with sensation and explore fetishes
    • light bondage
    • facesitting
    • kinky massage/bondassage
    • FemDom
    • role play
    • spanking
    • impact play
    • water sports
    • feminization
    • CBT

We can go super slow and sensual using tantric techniques or have more aggressive, rough sex.

I can come to you (outcall, in-room massage), or you can come to me (incall).

Please take a moment to look at all of my offerings at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/massage-plus-and-full-body-sensual-massage/

Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best – at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Blow Job Review With Las Vegas Escort

I thought this post blow job interview would be good to share with those who wonder what my blow jobs are like.

You can get access to the preview of the video on my other site www.NikkisLessons.com

You will have to do the free registration in order to see it.  There are also instructions there on how to access the full video.

Here is a loose transcription of our discussion:

He had a very good experience.  He loved the sensual touch.  I started by connecting with touch and breathing.  I also did teasing – not going straight to his cock.  Most people go straight to the act without having any foreplay or connection.  He was very impressed with my skills.  He was very pleased.  He has had lots of experiences where people think they are doing a great job and he tries to be encouraging, but the experience was lacking.  To have me share my skills with him and to be able to come back and verify how well skilled I am – everything was perfect.  No teeth.  Great lubrication.  I was into it, so it felt absolutely amazing.  It was by far one of the best he has had.

A couple of good points – no teeth, lots of saliva (lubrication).  Besides that, were there any techniques that surprised you or that were new to you?

Yes, I do a thing with my tongue – the swirl.  He really liked that.  That is my signature move.  It was new to him.  He was trying to see what I was doing to see what was causing the sensation he was feeling.  It felt like I was flipping my tongue.  I was doing the swirl and bob.

A lot of guys are just so grateful that someone is putting their mouth on their cock that they will take whatever they can get.  A lot of guys are paying attention though.

He guesses there are a lot of women who take pride in it, but then there are some who do it out of obligation.  When that is the case, he can tell within the first 30 seconds.  Most of the time he does not let women go down on him because, while he does not want to offend anyone, if they start and it’s not good he will take control by moving it through to the next stage to get her off his cock.  He is very oral, touchy and hands – on.  I ask if he feels like that has become his coping mechanism to deal with negative blow jobs.  He says yes, you don’t want them to feel bad.  Especially if they are down there and look up and ask if he likes it and if it’s not great that’s a tough situation.  So he finds a way to take the lead.

He is also a performer, so he loves to perform and give a good performance.  If he can take control of the situation, he can make sure he has a great performance.  It’s pleasing to him to see his partner pleased.  He wants to leave an impression on his partner.

How did he feel about the end of the session about me asking him if he would like to take over manually.  He said 9 out of 10 times he does not cum from blow jobs.  He was extremely close because of my skills.  He said he could have come in the next 15 minutes or less.

I teach as a giver to do things that are sustainable for the giver’s body.  Although I enjoyed everything I did, I could tell I had some fatigue in the muscles on the back of my neck.  I could tell I needed to take a step back from what I was doing.  I could also tell he was going to need more intense stimulation to get him to the peak than what I could provide, especially considering that I was fatigued.  That is why I asked him to stroke himself manually while I licked his balls and played with his asshole.

Did it detract from the whole blowjob?  He says no.  A lot of girls says it’s not a real blowjob if you use your hands.  He suggests doing whatever you need to do to get the job done.  Kudos if you can do it with your mouth alone but if you need to use your hands go for it but make sure to have enough saliva or lubrication to make sure you can slide and glide.

A lot of girls talk about their jaw getting sore.  It’s usually not a problem for me, but he is well endowed – very girthy – that’s why I took the breaks I did.  A lot of girls will power through it and try to get it done no matter what.  That’s not good because you want it to be mutually pleasurable.  You don’t want to hurt yourself or have lockjaw.  That leads to them not wanting to give head as often because they are sore after.

He says one thing that will really get a man there is if you are vocal – moaning, breathing and acting like you love it.  Even if you don’t like it, if you act like you love it, then he will have an easier time climaxing.

There is a difference between faking it and turning up the intensity.  If you are enjoying it and getting into it, you can turn up the intensity by adding more vocalizations, and you are still not going to be faking it.

The receiver can tell if you are faking it.  As the receiver, if you think your partner might be faking their enthusiasm, then the receiver will question if they were good or not as a partner overall.  That is different than turning up the intensity and the volume.

He felt like we were both in tune with each other.  He felt bad that he didn’t ejaculate from the oral.  He feels bad when his partner is asking him if he’s done yet.  That is why I put the time limit on our session.  We knew going into it how much time we had.  This is another thing that stops a lot of girls from giving a blowjob – because they never know how long it is going to take.  I teach to take the pressure off by making it goalless and not about the performance.

The goallessness – asking him if he was close and about to cum really helped.  Usually, a guy will stretch it out and get it to last as long as it can.  So when the giver puts a time on it (like five more minutes), he can work to reach climax during that time.  He then mentions a man going down on a woman – that he should stay down on her for as long as it takes.

I talk about how it’s different if you can play the day away.  In that case, staying down there for as long as it takes is fine.  But if you have other things to do then a time limit is good.

He loves being oral and going down.  He tries to make sure the woman cums at least 3x before he even penetrates her.  It’s like preheating the oven.  If you don’t do that, then you won’t get good results.  I feel that’s very impressive.  He shares that you come across women who have really beat up their vagina with a vibrator and they are desensitized.  Then, when he is down there, they enjoy it and love it, but it takes a long time and a lot of manipulation before they can cum.  That is frustrating for him.

I share that while a lot of times it is because a vibrator but that my body usually doesn’t climax until after 45 minutes of clitoral stimulation and that it’s not because of the vibrator since it takes that long even when I do use a vibrator.  He thinks he could do better.

I explain that there is a lot of pleasure to be had besides just climax.  If the goal is climax, often it pushes the climax further away because I feel performance pressure that I have to cum to make my partner happy.  He says he would never want anyone to feel pressure to cum because while he’s in the act he’s in tune with his partner’s body, and he knows that every woman and everybody is different and that every woman wants a different touch.  What works for one woman may not work for another.  He stays in tune and keyed in to how his partner’s body moves.  If he’s doing something, he can feel if she is enjoying it or not.  He can adjust according to how she moves.  This is how he customizes his oral skills to each individual to make sure they have an amazing time.  He can tell – he thinks he can make me cum in 25 or 30 minutes.  I tell him it also depends on what we do first.

Climax is a mixture of relaxation and stimulation.  If you start with a relaxing massage, then climax is easier.

Is there anything else he’d like to say to people about blowjobs, either giving or receiving?  Communication is the most important thing.  Preferences, likes and dislikes, if something is happening in the moment where it’s uncomfortable or if they are using teeth – don’t just sit there and bear through it because you don’t want them to stop or get offended.  Say what you like.  They are not going to know how to get better at it or please you if you don’t tell them.  They may just be doing what they did with their last partner, and they may not work for you, but they have no idea.  Communicate and tell them if you like it wet or dry.  Some women give a very dry blow job, but it makes for a lot of friction.  The tongue is very rough, and that is not pleasurable.

 

Please do let me know if you are in Las Vegas or coming to Las Vegas and would like to experience a full body sensual massage (FBSM), a girlfriend experience (GFE), or receive oral from me (bbbj) aka cock worship. We can go super slow and sensual using tantric massage techniques. I can come to you (outcall, in room massage) or you can come to me (incall).

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Make it a sexy day!
Nikki The Las Vegas Masseuse
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