As a Las Vegas dominatrix, I’m usually the one taking the dominant role. But every once in a while I get the opportunity to switch things up. This Las Vegas dominatrix roleplay gave me the chance to explore my submissive side. I was helping a new friend live out his sexy secretary fantasy.
Planning a Las Vegas Dominatrix Roleplay
He shared his desired scenario over email. We discussed a few points back and forth and completed the screening process. I don’t often get requests to be on the submissive side of a role play. But the way he approached the topic in the email was very polite. It made me feel comfortable exploring the experience with him.
He requested I arrive dressed as a sexy secretary and be as sexy with it as I could. He requested full makeup, a short skirt, and high heels. He liked the idea of turning heads while in the bar with a woman so dressed up.
Then, in the bedroom, he wanted to intensify the role play with dirty talk. He asked me if any words or phrases were off limits. My safe words are yellow for “don’t stop, but don’t increase the intensity,” and red for “stop immediately,” followed by a break and check-in. I told him almost anything goes while we were in our roles. I could use my safe words if something made me uncomfortable.
He also asked about spanking me a bit for being such a naughty, slutty secretary. I said yes, as long as we started gently. I am sensitive, and it doesn’t take much for me to feel any type of touch fully.
He had requested that I wear my high heels in the casino as well. I let him know I wouldn’t be able to do that because I am still nursing a knee injury from over the summer. But I would be happy to wear them in the room.
Meeting My Silver Haired Fox at a Las Vegas Casino Bar
I met him in the bar. I was pleasantly surprised to see I was meeting a silver haired fox of a man. We got a drink and chatted to get to know each other a bit. Then the conversation turned to what we would be doing when we got to the room.
We talked about why he wanted this experience. He shared that he is in a vanilla marriage and doesn’t get to explore much creatively in the bedroom. He also loved the idea of being anonymous in Vegas. Here, he could live out this fantasy in a discreet, safe way.
How to Win With My Body as a Dominant Man
I shared how he could win with my body. While I do enjoy receiving some spanking and other rough things, I need to feel relaxed and have some trust in my partner.
For spanking, I need it to start soft with a long, slow build up. This allows my body to relax into it and open up to receive the stimulation. The long, slow warm up allows time for feel good brain chemicals like dopamine and adrenaline to build up. Once I’m warmed up, I can take more and enjoy the intense sensations of a good spanking for much longer.
Even with deep throating and face fucking, if we start slow and stretch my throat methodically, it won’t take very long for me to open up. Then I can take almost any cock deep into my throat and enjoy the feeling of having my head held while my mouth is being fucked and used totally for my partner’s pleasure.
We talked about the flow of the scene so we could stay in our roles as much as possible once we got in the room. It was time to leave, so we went up to the bar to settle the tab.
I stood as close to him as I could, giving him little teasing touches as we waited for the bartender. I loved teasing him in public like this. He was getting visibly aroused, and I could tell by the way he was shifting that he was starting to get a bulge in his pants.
To be continued… In Part 2, we take the sexy secretary fantasy upstairs, where the Las Vegas dominatrix becomes the submissive.
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