I was on the RedBook forum and a question came up about bondassage and the pricing. Here was my response:)
Bondassage looks so cool! I’ve been doing versions of this in my practice for years but the gal who coined this term is super smart.
I actually started out with just FBSM and since I was getting so many requests for fetishes – and was able to deliver – I added fetish and dominatrix services as well.
Although I don’t do “Bondassage” as described, I love sessions where I get to strap someone down and tease, torture, pleasure and play with someone.
As for pricing – always keep in mind – if it’s a specialty it’ll be more. If the person took training they paid for it. If they’re licensed as an LMT it’s an additional risk. Of course I’m more expensive because I offer mutual pleasure. It all factors in.
I have been having the most fun working with couples! I am so honored to have been several women’s first same sex experience. I feel the depth of the trust and courage that it takes for these ladies to finally fulfill their deep desire. I’m proud of their men who are so supportive and open minded that they give their lady space to have a new experience. And to facilitate the couple’s first threesome – so hot!
I so enjoy giving the pleasure and the spouse who is watching starts learning the moves I’m doing. I like watching the spouse watch me as I do things to their honey that no one else has done to them in who knows how long. Here are some of the things I have shared during sessions:
How to help her enjoy anal penetration
How to find her g-spot
How to give a better blow job
How to incorporate power exchange (Dominant and submissive)
How to find his prostate
How to massage his cock
Tease and denial for him
I’m going out of town myself this weekend and I definitely will be scheduling some sexy fun time into our trip. I normally don’t plan for it and it doesn’t always happen… but this time we are going just the 2 of us – no kid:)
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I’ve received a few interesting calls so I thought I should address this issue.
People have asked if I have to do anal on them. No, if you don’t like anal I won’t do it. Period. I don’t do anything you don’ want.
A couple has asked if I have to include BDSM. No, if you want sensual and erotic playtime or massage time with out additional kinks or fetishes, that’s fine!
On this blog I tend to write about my more extreme sessions. I do this because I have to share them with someone! I mean, all these experiences build up inside and this is the perfect outlet. I do talk to telly about it – but aren’t they entertaining? I like the idea that my erotic writing is giving arousal to people across the united stated (and around the world).
Things we do during our time together are catered and customized to you and your preferences. If you want to experience something new, terrific. If you want to push a limit, I’m the girl to do it. If you want to totally relax and just enjoy the moment without worrying about integrating something new and different, that’s fine too. A lot of my clients don’t even want full service or GFE – and they don’t have to do it.
I also follow whatever boundaries you give me. I have had sessions using condoms for blow jobs, dental dams for when I licked their ass and for when they ate my pussy, gloves for anal play, and even total outer course – just body to body rubbing without any penetration at all. All of that is good!
Oh my gosh, I’ve been gone for 2 weeks today and I miss miss miss my home, family and terrific clients!!!! It’s been tough being away from Las Vegas with the 24 hour stores, restaurants etc., my family with their support (emotionally and physically), and my clients who supply me with the variety of experience and satisfaction of pleasure on a regular basis.
Enough longing and pining for home… I will be back on Monday April 2nd:)
I think the challenge was totally worth it though and I did step up to meet it! I’ve been in an intensive training this last 2 weeks learning lots of new techniques for genital and anal massage. I’m super excited to come home and show all of you to see what you think. I’ve learned about breath and how focusing on that can give you a more full bodied experience of your pleasure. I’ve learned new cock and pussy massage moves that are physically relaxing and erotically stimulating at the same time. I’ve also learned some pelvic release techniques that can bring on full body relaxation more quickly than any other type of massage.
And of course I am eager for some nice pussy play and servicing some cock and ass again hehehe:) I haven’t had time, energy or opportunity to connect with very many people to play with here so I am definitely HORNY!!!
2 hours is turning into the best time frame! I’ve had several sessions of this length in the last week and each one was simply amazing. I’ve been learning about Taoist Erotic Massage lately and with this expanded time frame I’m able to truly indulge you with all my skills.
To start of with, I bring my table if you like. I always recommend it anyway because I will have better access to your whole body – I’ll be able to reach further and with more pressure. You also have the benefit of the firm table holding you up under the pressure of my firm strokes. If you like deep pressure it is a must because none of the pressure is lost by you getting pushed down into the mattress.
My normal full body massage takes about an hour. If you only get an hour with me then I get to give a great treatment on your back and glutes if we allow for play time. If you have a 90 minute session I can do back, anal play, front, and we have play time. If you climax before our session time is over I will continue to massage your body until our time is up.
The new things I’ve learned can fill an hour by themselves. Complete cock and anal massage. These new strokes have taken all the things I already knew intuitively and broken them down. I complete each stroke slowly, sensually, and integrate it with the rest of your body by also caressing your heart area and your thighs. I also talk you through some breathing relaxation practices that heightens the sensations even more. I continue with this until climax is imminent and at that point give you the choice of how you would like to finish – either continuing as is, orally or by going to the bed and having sex.
One of my most loyal clients. I gave him a full body massage and ended up doing a blowjob on video;) I will be selling that footage so let me know if you want to see. $15
A very talented cunniliguist at the Vdara. I came all over his face during the 69 position on the massage table! Then we moved to the bed for sex. Used the female condom again. It was… interesting. Then he finished on my chest:)
I got a couples quicky. OMG all they wanted was some down and dirty play time really fast. So fun! She was cute and tasted good but I called her all kinds of bad names following the prompts of her boyfriend. So HOT!
While leaving my earlier appointment at the Vdara I was going down the elevator with my massage table and the man in there asked me for my card. He called for an appointment that night and he made me cum again! First he ate and ate me. Then he fucked my pussy while we prepared my ass. Then we did some really good ass fucking. We finished in one of my favorite positions… me laying on my back masturbating with his fingers in my pussy and him with his crotch right in my face jerking off. He came all over my chest too.
The day ended with a client who wanted some massage and some BDSM. I won’t go into too much detail here (if you want to know about it I’ll be writing it soon on http://mistressivana.me) but suffice it to say it was super hot and super fun and he said it might have been one of the most intense experiences of his life.
I was so happy to have such a busy productive day! I also got in a great workout – I can still feel it in my muscles today:)
Picture of me on Sunday after meeting with the couple.
An inflatable butt plug that can be gradually expanded for a fuller sensation.
A Repeat Client Ready for Anal Exploration
My second client of the day on Tuesday was a repeat client who I really like. He has way cute eyes! Anyway, I like seeing repeat clients because I already know a lot of their likes and dislikes.
I already knew he was curious about anal. Last time he was in town he’d only hired me for an hour, so I had just given him his massage on the bed and then we had our play time.
This time he hired me for 2 hours and I had some real fun with him! I brought my table up to the room and after totally relaxing him with a back massage I started licking his ass.
Exploring Anal Massage and Butt Plug Play
Then I got out my butt plug and after covering it with a condom I gently worked it into his ass. I massaged his glutes and the backs of his thighs while he tried to keep the plug in. It did pop out a couple times but it was fun for me to put it back in;)
I got my very small dildo and after putting the condom on and lubing it up I started to slide that in and out of him. He was arching his back so much I suggested he get on his knees and elbows to take it. Which he did.
He was enjoying that so much I asked him if he could take more. He said he thought so. I got the next size larger and again after putting on the rubber and the lube I slid it in and out of him.
Taking His Anal Exploration Further
Finally, he couldn’t stand it anymore. He rolled on his back so he could grab my ass while I massaged his cock and used the dildo on his ass.
We talked about him fucking me in the ass but before I knew it I’d hit him in just the right spot and he came all over my hand and his belly!
If you’re interested in exploring anal massage in Las Vegas, you can read more about my approach to pelvic floor release and prostate massage.
More Anal Play and Las Vegas Dominatrix Adventures
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I was on the RedBook forum and a question came up about bondassage and the pricing. Here was my response:)
