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Couples Sex Exploration And Experience

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Or as I like to say “Sexploration & Sexperience”

Today was very successful for my couple. They were only in town for 2 days so we did a 5 hour intensive.

The outcome was

  • Lots of communication gaps were filled in and we discussed different personality/communication styles. I recommended the book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman to her. Since he is an entrepreneur and is more familiar with personality types I recommended he review the DISC personality types – Him being a high DI and her being a full S and take the responsibility of applying what he knows about that kind of thing to this relationship. Here are some books about the DISC behavioral model you can check out.
  • She was able to overcome (or begin to overcome) her negative beliefs. We talked about how she gets to choose what to believe and how if something is making her feel bad she can choose to change it and feel better about it. We talked about how to do that. I walked through that process myself with my mentor Shelby Collinge. Yes, fear and shame can be paralyzing. Walking through it and finding the freedom and truth inside is a-freakin-mazing!
  • He learned the basics of massage and sensual massage. You can see my videos about that here. More will be coming soon.
  • We found her g-spot. Yes, after 20+ years of marriage they were both unsure of the exact location. I think her orgasms will be going to the next level now!
  • We covered some basic bondage techniques. I showed him a chest harness and told him to look up twistedmonk.com to learn more about erotic rope bondage and to get a starter kit. Then we played with clothes pins and clamps;)
  • He improved his spanking technique – there is a way to do it that stimulates the entire groin!
  • They learned how to make anal sex enjoyable. I taught them the techniques I use in this video.
  • My male partner came about half way through the session and we were did some demonstration and he shared his experience about his sexual growth.
  • We developed a plan to keep the communication and kink going once they get home:)

I am so grateful and honored to have had this experience with them. I let them know they could email me if they had any follow up questions and if they liked my style of working with them and they wanted ongoing mentoring I would love to work with them via phone and email for a reasonable fee.

If you are interested in a 5 hour intensive please contact me.

Nikki
email: lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Mischevious Massage Monday! Having a little fun to start the week off;)

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I am definitely feeling playful today! I had a couple of great appointments yesterday that left me totally worn out but now I’m rested and ready let you relax:)

I got to learn a new acronym yesterday – DATY. It means Dine At The Y. Which is a phrase I use all the time since I love eating pussy – I had just never seen it written out that way. My client had asked if I allowed it and I replied with a “Heck Yes!”. Well, he came over and although he claimed to be shy it sure didn’t take him long to get his hands and mouth all over me:) First, I was lying on the massage table on my back with him DATY. Then, he lay on his back on the table and I climbed on top of him and we stayed in a 69 position for a long time. He was doing so well and I wanted to make sure he didn’t stop so I snaked my calf under the back of his head to better hold him in place.

Finally, he said he wanted to make me cum with his fingers and had me get back onto my back on the table. He started working on my but I wanted more of his tongue. When I was about to cum I told him to lick my asshole (which he confided he had never done and under normal circumstances would never do) while I frigged my clit and shot out pussy juice all over him, myself, and the table (so much that it trickled onto the floor in a puddle). This was so erotic that he could hold back no longer and came using his own hand.

I’m going to go over to my other blog now (http://mistressivana.me) to write about the first appointment. Once you read about these two you’ll understand why I was so tired!). Now I’m rested and ready for more – can we say nympho?

Sunday was a great day for massage!

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And boy did I do a lot of it!

  1. One of my most loyal clients. I gave him a full body massage and ended up doing a blowjob on video;) I will be selling that footage so let me know if you want to see. $15
  2. A very talented cunniliguist at the Vdara. I came all over his face during the 69 position on the massage table! Then we moved to the bed for sex. Used the female condom again. It was… interesting. Then he finished on my chest:)
  3. I got a couples quicky. OMG all they wanted was some down and dirty play time really fast. So fun! She was cute and tasted good but I called her all kinds of bad names following the prompts of her boyfriend. So HOT!
  4. While leaving my earlier appointment at the Vdara I was going down the elevator with my massage table and the man in there asked me for my card. He called for an appointment that night and he made me cum again! First he ate and ate me. Then he fucked my pussy while we prepared my ass. Then we did some really good ass fucking. We finished in one of my favorite positions… me laying on my back masturbating with his fingers in my pussy and him with his crotch right in my face jerking off. He came all over my chest too.
  5. The day ended with a client who wanted some massage and some BDSM. I won’t go into too much detail here (if you want to know about it I’ll be writing it soon on http://mistressivana.me) but suffice it to say it was super hot and super fun and he said it might have been one of the most intense experiences of his life.

I was so happy to have such a busy productive day! I also got in a great workout – I can still feel it in my muscles today:)

Picture of me on Sunday after meeting with the couple.