Discreet Las Vegas Escort: Privacy, Trust & Connection

This has been a great week! I finished off the week with a super hot session yesterday. I will write about that another time, but for today I want to share a few things about me that you may not know. Being a discreet Las Vegas escort means privacy and trust are incredibly important to me, especially when it comes to the people I spend intimate time with.

I have been in customer service and sales types of positions for most of my life, with the exception of five years when I was a technician (stagehand). I have met A LOT of people. I’m turning 40 this month, so I’ve been in the workforce for about 24 years. I used to be able to remember everyone surprisingly well. About five or six years ago, that changed. I couldn’t remember new people unless I saw them several times or something very unique happened during our session.

The Challenge: Remembering Every Escort Session

This creates a bit of awkwardness because I know that for my partners, our sessions are almost always unique. For them, they are often experiencing new things for the first time. Sometimes they are completely expanding their minds through an intense experience with me.

For me, however, I facilitate and participate in these kinds of experiences often, usually several times a week. That means an experience that is completely new and memorable for someone else may not stand out in my memory in the same way. I sometimes wonder if I’ve hurt a partner’s feelings by not remembering our last session.

The funniest example was a returning friend who took his clothes off very efficiently. I made a comment saying something like, “Wow, you are ready to go right away!” He laughed because apparently I had said the exact same thing at the beginning of our last session.

Why I Don’t Keep Detailed Client Records

This issue can partly be explained by something called Dunbar’s Number, the idea that there may be a cognitive limit to how many stable social relationships a person can maintain at one time. A commonly cited number is around 150.

Dunbar's Number social relationship theory

In my work, I meet far more people than most people do in their everyday lives. That can make remembering every person and every detail of every encounter difficult, even when the experience itself was meaningful.

Privacy Matters to a Discreet Las Vegas Escort

I feel this issue is both a help and a hindrance. One benefit is privacy. As a discreet Las Vegas escort, protecting the personal details of the people I see is extremely important to me. I don’t keep detailed notes or records about our intimate experiences because I would never want that information to fall into the wrong hands and expose someone’s private life.

The hindrance is what I’ve explained above. I can’t always remember the details of our play from one session to the next. I know that could come across as impersonal or uncaring, which is the opposite of how I want someone to feel with me. My intention is always to create a space built around trust, discretion, honesty, and respect.

Building Trust Through Repeat Sessions

First and foremost, patience and love. Not romantic love, but love for each other as fellow human beings. For me, that means assuming the best of intentions unless shown otherwise, being honest, practicing transparency, and acting with integrity. Those values are important to me both personally and professionally.

The other solution is for those who really like me to see me more often. Once I see someone several times, I usually start remembering them and the details of our time together. If I see someone once a month or more, I’m able to really start developing a relationship, and that feels good.

Repeat sessions also allow each experience to build on the last. We learn each other’s preferences, boundaries, desires, and communication styles. Trust grows over time, which can create more freedom for experimentation and exploration while still respecting each other’s boundaries and privacy. One example of what patience and trust can create is my story about tantric touch and a first climax in over a year.

More Ways to Connect With Me

If you’re in Las Vegas or planning a visit and discretion matters to you, I’d love to hear from you. You can email me at lvmasseuse@gmail.com or text me at 7022361975.

Whether you’re interested in full body sensual massage, Tantra, prostate massage, sensual domination, role play, fetish exploration, or kinky massage, we can talk about the kind of experience you’re looking for and what feels like a good fit.

If prostate massage is something you’re curious about, you can also read about what happens inside a Las Vegas prostate massage session.

We can go slow and sensual using tantric techniques, explore something more playful and kinky, or create an experience somewhere in between. Communication and confidentiality are important to me before, during, and after our time together.

I can come to you for an outcall appointment, or you can come to me for an incall appointment in Las Vegas.

Make it a sexy day!

Nikki, The Las Vegas Masseuse
7022361975 (text is best, at least at first)
lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Spring Break Time

Sun Bay
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Today we are leaving on vacation for 1 week. It’s really weird for me…I haven’t taken a true vacation where all I was planning to do was RnR – ever. Always I have gone out of town for some kind of conference or personal growth retreat or maybe to visit family (you know how relaxing that is). I’m not taking my computer or my phone. It’s total unplug time. And my mind is racing – if you’ve ever had an appointment with me you know I love my business and working on it and that I will talk about it with anyone who will listen.

This week I am focusing on being centered and enjoying the moment. Who knows, I might even get a massage for myself:)

WordPress 2010 in review

The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:

Healthy blog!

The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads Wow.

Crunchy numbers

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A helper monkey made this abstract painting, inspired by your stats.

About 3 million people visit the Taj Mahal every year. This blog was viewed about 25,000 times in 2010. If it were the Taj Mahal, it would take about 3 days for that many people to see it.

In 2010, there were 34 new posts, not bad for the first year! There were 28 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 8mb. That’s about 2 pictures per month.

The busiest day of the year was October 27th with 379 views. The most popular post that day was Service.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were lasvegas.backpage.com, adventuresofalasvegasmasseuse.com, ht.ly, twitter.com, and eccie.net.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for adventures of a las vegas masseuse, groin massage, las vegas masseuse, prostate massage las vegas, and ivanabreal@gmail.com.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

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Service July 2010
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2

About Me July 2010

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7 Things To Know About When Getting A Massage From Me July 2010
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About Draping July 2010
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How I Am Playful August 2010
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The Definitions Of Pleasure

pleasure

1. the state or feeling of being pleased.

2. enjoyment or satisfaction derived from what is to one’s liking; gratification; delight.

3. worldly or frivolous enjoyment: the pursuit of pleasure.

4. recreation or amusement; diversion; enjoyment: Are you traveling on business or for pleasure?

5. sensual gratification.

6. a cause or source of enjoyment or delight: It was a pleasure to see you.

7. pleasurable quality: the pleasure of his company.

8. one’s will, desire, or choice: to make known one’s pleasure.

–verb (used with object)

9. to give pleasure to; gratify; please.

–verb (used without object)

10. to take pleasure; delight: I pleasure in your company.

11. to seek pleasure, as by taking a holiday.

Could the Adult Swingers Lifestyle Have Stopped Tiger Woods Divorce?

Now that Tiger Woods is divorced I hope he changes his lifestyle. I think that the whole thing could have been avoided if he and his wife had changed their life and their lifestyle!

My husband and I faced divorce in 2008. I had broken our wedding vows in much the same way that Tiger Woods did. I did so because I was afraid to communicate my needs to my husband and therefor I wasn’t getting what I needed. Lucky for us, once we felt we could be honest about what we really wanted (rather than just wanting what we were taught to want) we were able to renegotiate our whole marriage agreement and recreate it to make a lifestyle we really enjoy. Unluckily, it took us hurting each other emotionally to such extremes that we believed we couldn’t cause any more pain and therefor were completely free to talk about our true feelings. Having already faced the ultimate rejection of divorce, the concern of judgement or rejection was lifted.

Now we are in the swinging lifestyle here in Vegas. I have relationships with ladies on the side sometimes – I love women! We play together. When I am in an erotic situation for my work I follow our agreed upon boundaries to the best of my ability. We have a good thing going and I won’t jeopardize it for anything – no amount of money could take the place of what we have.