Couples Sex Exploration And Experience

Or as I like to say “Sexploration & Sexperience”

Today was very successful for my couple. They were only in town for 2 days so we did a 5 hour intensive.

The outcome was

  • Lots of communication gaps were filled in and we discussed different personality/communication styles. I recommended the book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman to her. Since he is an entrepreneur and is more familiar with personality types I recommended he review the DISC personality types – Him being a high DI and her being a full S and take the responsibility of applying what he knows about that kind of thing to this relationship. Here are some books about the DISC behavioral model you can check out.
  • She was able to overcome (or begin to overcome) her negative beliefs. We talked about how she gets to choose what to believe and how if something is making her feel bad she can choose to change it and feel better about it. We talked about how to do that. I walked through that process myself with my mentor Shelby Collinge. Yes, fear and shame can be paralyzing. Walking through it and finding the freedom and truth inside is a-freakin-mazing!
  • He learned the basics of massage and sensual massage. You can see my videos about that here. More will be coming soon.
  • We found her g-spot. Yes, after 20+ years of marriage they were both unsure of the exact location. I think her orgasms will be going to the next level now!
  • We covered some basic bondage techniques. I showed him a chest harness and told him to look up twistedmonk.com to learn more about erotic rope bondage and to get a starter kit. Then we played with clothes pins and clamps;)
  • He improved his spanking technique – there is a way to do it that stimulates the entire groin!
  • They learned how to make anal sex enjoyable. I taught them the techniques I use in this video.
  • My male partner came about half way through the session and we were did some demonstration and he shared his experience about his sexual growth.
  • We developed a plan to keep the communication and kink going once they get home:)

I am so grateful and honored to have had this experience with them. I let them know they could email me if they had any follow up questions and if they liked my style of working with them and they wanted ongoing mentoring I would love to work with them via phone and email for a reasonable fee.

If you are interested in a 5 hour intensive please contact me.

Nikki
email: lvmasseuse@gmail.com

Couples Massage Has Been Really Popular!

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Hi all!

Things have been really picking up for me since I moved into my new studio apartment and have been able to provide incall services. I have gone out a couple times but mostly I’ve had some really awesome people coming to see me. As for couples massages, I have been getting a ton of calls! I love it. I made a new vision board and I put a bunch of happy smiling faces of couples on it because I LOVE working with couples. I even have an appointment coming up with a gent and his wife that he doesn’t know if she wants it to be sensual or not so I get to feel her out to see if she’ll let me feel her up hahahaha. Really, what a treat! I can’t wait to see how it goes.

Business is booming and I am looking for all kinds of help so if you or anyone you know would like to volunteer/work with me here are some of the things I’m looking for:

  • An article writer: I have a lot of content I share in my videos and audios. I would love that content to be repurposed for use on my blogs and article directories.
  • Online Business Management: I am losing track of all my emails and different projects. I could use someone to help me manage all of that.
  • Various other things that can only be done by locals so email me privately if you are interested in those.

Meanwhile, I had a very fun day today:) I took some naught pictures with my girlfriend. Click here to see a sampling of them. If you want to see the naughty ones they are for sale… all 38 pics for $40. I take credit cards and paypal. All transactions show up as LV Consulting.

Have a sexy day,

Nikki